Men will often make a joke about how they cannot understand women but the truth is that women very rarely understand men. Men like to make out that they are straight forward and easy to read but they are just like women in the sense that they expect you to understand their secrets without them ever telling you that they exists. The good news however is that the ten biggest kept secrets are now available to every women, right here, on the next line…
1. Personality is worth its weight in makeup
You might think that men don’t see passed your foundation but you are wrong in thinking that. When it comes to settling down men will often overlook aesthetics for the sake of personality. That doesn’t mean to say they won’t be attracted to someone with a pretty face, it just means that if the personality doesn’t match then they will lose interest pretty quickly. Men want to date women who they can get on with, who they feel like they can be friends with and who will remain beautiful on the inside no matter how the outside changes.
2. Size matters
The simple truth is that every man is worried about the size of their package. They are worried that it’s too small, that it’s different looking and that it doesn’t match up to your previous partners. The annoying thing is that it doesn’t matter how many times you tell them it is good the way it is, they will never believe you. Their package is something that they are most sensitive about and it is also something that they will never admit it.
3. Sex on the first date will get you saved as a booty call
Men will happily sleep with a girl who makes it easy, but she will never mean anything to them. Women who sleep with men on their first date only hear back from the man if he wants a booty call. The truth is that if a man is thinking about dating, then he won’t choose a girl who gave it up so easily. Men want to think that you are theirs and that no other hands have ever touched you. Sleeping with them on the first date does not give this impression.
4. Oral sex is important
If your man has told you that they don’t enjoy oral sex, then they are lying to you. It’s as simple as that. There is nothing more gratifying to a man than receiving the gift of oral sex. No man will admit to the importance of it, but it’s true. So it might be worthwhile remembering that little secret the next time their birthday approaches.
5. First contact
Men don’t tend to talk to many women that they don’t have any interest in. Men tend to only keep up relationships like that with other men, so if he is getting in touch with you first, then it means that he likes you. Even if he won’t admit that he likes you, first contact is proof that you were on his mind.
6. Appreciation of beauty
Men’s eyes can wonder and sometimes it can seem hurtful to the person they are with, but the truth is they are just appreciating beauty. Okay so it might seem a little distasteful of them to watch another women walking in front, but they don’t actually mean any offense when they do it. They are not comparing you to them or them to you; they have just seen something they like. It’s almost like appreciating a picture at a museum… almost.
7. You don’t need to have everything on display
If a man likes a girl then it means that he likes her no matter what she is wearing. Men often find clothes cute that you wouldn’t normally dream about wearing in front of them. Sometimes the most attractive thing you can wear is a pair of sweat pants and a smile. Men love when women wear their clothes too. An over sized t-shirt might make you feel like you are wearing a bin liner but to him you will look like a million dollars.
8. There is nothing on his mind
If a girl looks upset then it normally means that there is something on her mind, this isn’t always the case for men though. Often they will look like they are in a deep state of thought just because they have switched off for a minute and they can actually find it quite annoying if you pester them about it. If a man wants to talk about something that is bothering him then they will with little prompting, if they tell you that there is nothing wrong, then there probably isn’t.
9. Feelings
It can be easy at times to forget that men have feelings too, so at times you might not put things as delicately as they might need to be. Telling them that they have put on weight might not mean anything to you but it might actually hurt their feelings. Just because men act tough, doesn’t mean that they actually are.
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